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Sophie, Countess of Wessex and Prince Edward, Earl of Wessex on April 27, 2022 in Soufriere, Saint Lucia

Prince Edward, the Duke of Edinburgh first met his future wife,Sophie, Duchess of Edinburghin 1987.

After several years of dating, Sophie, a former public relations exec from Oxford, England, marriedQueen Elizabeth’syoungest childin 1999. Upon their union, they received the titles Earl and Countess of Wessex and later became full-time working members of the royal family.

In the years since, both Sophie and Edward have dedicated their lives to charitable work, first on behalf of Edward’s mother,Queen Elizabeth, and now on behalf of his brother,King Charles. Despite her position in the royal family, Sophie has made it clear that hertwo children,Lady Louiseand James, Earl of Wessex, will make their own way in the world.

“We try to bring them up with the understanding that they are very likely to have towork for a living,” she told theSunday Times. “Hence we made the decision not to use HRH titles. They have them and can decide to use them from 18, but it’s highly unlikely.”

In 2023, Sophiebecame the Duchess of Edinburghon her husband’s 59th birthday, when King Charles named his younger brother the Duke of Edinburgh (the royal title previously belonged to their father,Prince Philip, whodied in April 2021). Shortly after, Sophie stepped out at one of her first royal events with her new title whilewearing a very special accessory— the black-and-white pearl drop earrings Prince Edward gave her for their wedding day in 1999.

From her life before meeting Prince Edward to how she’s supported the royal family through hard times, here’s everything to know about Sophie, Duchess of Edinburgh.

She was born in Oxford

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Sophie Rhys-Jones, girlfriend of HRH Prince Edward

Sophie attended Dulwich Preparatory School and Kent College before enrolling at West Kent College for security training.

She had a career in public relations

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SOPHIE RHYS-JONES AND LADY COBHAM (RIGHT) LAUNCH THE FIRST STEPS APPEAL CHARITY FOR TODDLERS IN BIRMINGHAM

After training as a secretary, Sophie began working in public relations. She worked at Capital Radio, a popular radio network in the U.K., for four years before working at several other companies.

In 1996, she launched her own PR agency, RJH Public Relations, with her business partner, Murray Harkin. Sophie and Edward both left their jobs in 2002 to support the royal family full-time.

She met Edward at work

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Prince Edward And His Fiancee Sophie Rhys-jones On The Day Of Their Engagement

Sophie first met her future husband in 1987, while she was working at Capital Radio and he was dating her friend, according tothe BBC. Theycrossed paths againin 1993 during a promotional shoot for the Prince Edward Summer Challenge.

Sophie was working for the PR agency hired to coordinate the photo shoot, and after a celebrity guest backed out, she was recruited as a model to pose on a tennis court with the royal.

“Nobody knew that there was an attraction between them that day,” Sally Jones, a tennis champion who was present at the shoot, recalled to PEOPLE in 1999. “But Edward always had an eye for a bright girl — and Sophie is bright, sparky and fun.”

Their first date, which included tennis and dinner at Buckingham Palace, took place soon after.

She has been married to Edward since 1999

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The Earl And Countess Of Wessex Following Their Wedding In St. George’s Chapel

Edwardproposed to Sophiewhile on vacation in the Bahamas in December 1998, and they announced their engagement on Jan. 6, 1999.

Sophie added of the surprise proposal, “I was slightly stunned for a minute, and then I realized I should actually answer the question, so then I said yes. I said, ‘Yes, please.’ "

On June 19, 1999,they marriedat St. George’s Chapel at Windsor Castle with an estimated 200 million viewers tuning into the broadcast worldwide. Unlike previous royal weddings, the couple requested that their special day not be a state occasion, and their 560 guests were mainly friends and relatives.

On the day of their wedding, Edward was namedEarl of Wessexand Sophie was made the Countess of Wessex. They honeymooned atBalmoral Castlein Scotland.

She is a mother of two

James, Viscount Severn, Prince Edward, Earl of Wessex, Lady Louise Windsor and Sophie, Countess of Wessex visit The Wild Place Project at Bristol Zoo on July 23, 2019 in Bristol, England

On Nov. 8, 2003, Sophie gave birth to her and Edward’s first child, daughter Lady Louise Alice Elizabeth Mary Mountbatten-Windsor, at Frimley Park Hospital in Frimley, England. Since Louise arrived prematurely, Prince Edward missed her birth because he was on an official visit to Mauritius.

About a month ahead of her due date, Sophie experienced a placental abruption and had anemergency cesarean section. As a precaution, Louise was transferred to a neonatal unit at St. George’s Hospital in London. Her early arrival also resulted in Louise having esotropia, an eye condition where one or both eyes turns inward, prompting Sophie to take an interest incharitable work with premature infantsand avoidable blindness.

Sophie and Prince Edward’s second child,James Alexander Philip Theo Mountbatten-Windsor, was born on Dec. 17, 2007, at Frimley Park Hospital. James is the youngest grandchild of the lateQueen ElizabethandPrince Philipand was styled as Viscount Severn at birth. He became the Earl of Wessex on March 10, 2023, after his father assumed the Duke of Edinburgh title.

Despite being younger than his sister, James is 14th inline to the throneand Louise is 15th, as they were both born before theSuccession to the Crown Act 2013. The act ended the system of male primogeniture for those born after Oct. 28, 2011, meaning that birth order, regardless of gender, now determines the order of succession.

Instead of being styled as Prince or Princess or as His or Her Royal Highness, both Lady Louise and James, Earl of Wessex, are styled as the children of a duke. If they wish, they can choose toadopt royal titleswhen they turn 18, according to the 1917 Letters Patent. This decreed that all children of the monarch’s heirs have princely status and can opt to use the designation His or Her Royal Highness.

She became the Duchess of Edinburgh in 2023

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Britain’s Prince Edward, Duke of Edinburgh (L) and Britain’s Sophie, Duchess of Edinburgh (R) pose for a photograph with Marianna Melnyk, aged 10, from the Ukrainian community at the City Chambers in Edinburgh

“Thank you very much indeed for welcoming us to Edinburgh today on, indeed, a very special and slightly overwhelming day,” Edward told the crowd. He referred to Sophie as his “wife and Duchess,” eliciting laughs from the crowd.

“But I also want to express my thanks to everyone who has worked so hard to make our Ukraine friends feel so very welcome,” he added.

She is passionate about charity work

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Sophie, Countess of Wessex, as Patron of the Charity DEBRA, meets staff as she visits the Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB) clinic at St Thomas’s Hospital on February 12, 2014 in London, England

The Duchess of Edinburgh serves as patron of more than 70organizations and charities, according tothe palace, and has undertaken hundreds of engagements annually since becoming a full-time working member of the royal family. Sophie has focused on charities related tosight lossand avoidable blindness,frontline workers, gender equality and accessibility.

“She has a simple connection with people when shemeets patients and families,” a former staffer told PEOPLE. “I think of it as scattering magic dust.”

She was close with Queen Elizabeth

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Queen Elizabeth II and Sophie, Countess of Wessex attend a reception to celebrate the work of the Queen Elizabeth Diamond Jubilee Trust at Buckingham Palace on October 29, 2019 in London, England

“They are very close,” a royal source told PEOPLE. Sophie “is very family orientated, and the Queen appreciates that.”

A guest who attended thestate funeralof the late monarch told PEOPLE that Sophie was a huge support to the royal family as theymourned the Queen.

“The Countess of Wessex was incredible. I saw her putting her arm around three or four people,” lawyer Pranav Bhanot told PEOPLE. “It felt likeshe was really the gluekeeping everyone quite strong today.”

In one touching moment after the service, Sophieplaced a reassuring armaroundPrince George. As the eldest child ofPrincess KateandPrince William, George became second in line to the throne following the Queen’s death.

“She really seemed to be the person keeping the family together,” Bhanot explained. “There were a few bishops who started crying when they saw the Queen and she was kind of comforting them, even though she is the direct family member.”

She attended King Charles' coronation in May 2023

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Prince Edward, Duke of Edinburgh and Sophie, Duchess of Edinburgh

“I’ve heard she’s thrilled,” the fashion designer said. “The reaction from everyone has been incredible; it was a joyous event.”

source: people.com